Hello Everyone,
This is my second fresher’s week in so many years. The
first, when I was actually a fresher, was spent on nights out to the local
clubs and meeting people from my past and future. I went along to student
activities events and made myself sit for hours sorting out my timetable and
buying books and food shopping for the first time. It was a turning point for
me, giving me the belief that I could actually do this, live away from home and
do everything for myself.
This time round, I was wiser, a little more experienced
and restrained, feeling like I knew what to expect from this one. Yes, I was in
a different country, in fact a different continent, but how much could really
change from small detail of the drinking age being 21? There were under-aged
students during our fresher’s week, so I didn’t expect a lot to have changed.
Well, a lot did.
First off, evening student events were not held in a pub, or a
nightclub, but in the Student’s Union Building, or in other places on campus.
Secondly, Americans know how to party! Lack of alcohol did not diminish the
party spirit, or the dance moves. In fact, they were better! Without the false
confidence and stumbling that alcohol provides, the dance moves were more
complicated and much more synchronized. On the dance floor in Britain, it is
littered with groups of girls on a ‘girls-night-out’ and guys on a
‘lads-night’, or the totally smashed individuals pouncing on each other with
little or no regard for standards.
I don’t want to be a hypocrite, I do enjoy a
good night out dancing in a club, and alcohol comes as part of that. It allows
me to postpone the horrible moment when you just crash from too much dancing
and too little sleep to a much later moment (normally the second I get back
into my room). However, I have never done a night out completely sober, and
this last week was undoubtedly tougher than my first fresher’s week. Still
suffering the effects of jetlag, it perhaps was more difficult than it could
have been. However, it was an eye-opener. I got to see the progression of
couples from the first meeting to those first tentative steps onto the
dance-floor, rather than the lumbering ‘what’s your name?’ and immediately
locking lips. I got to see proper dance-battles, the likes of only seen on the
TV. Synchronised dance routines, which I have always had a soft spot for, were
played so often that it was an abomination if you didn’t know at least one by
the end of the night. An outdoor dance floor and a movie on the field, which
would never happen in Scotland, either because of the rain or the dropping
temperature, rounded off a pretty good week. A perfectly enjoyable sober week.